Would of, Could of, Should of. The three statements you would rather not be mumbling. If they are part of your regular vocabulary then you may have some work to do. Living life with regret, excuses or guilt, blind you from getting what you really want in life.
As a coach I hear “I should of” or “I would have, but…” Instead of drowning in what has already been said and done, take responsibility. The sooner you do this. The sooner you will have complete control over your life. You and only you can choose, decide and take action. You have heard the question “what would you do if you knew you couldn’t fail?” Any roadblock keeping you from what you want tells us that a fear is in place. Fear of losing love, fear of losing money, fear of failing, fear, fear, FEAR!
Living life through fear is the opposite of living life through love. And since “only love is real” then everything else is false. This may sound crazy or untrue to some, but try imagining for a moment what it would be like if you all-out followed your inner guidance, your secret dream…. We have the tendency to imagine what we will lose, not gain.
Is fear more powerful than the thought of pursuing your inner dreams. In most cases the answer is simply yes. The question is, how do we overcome that fear? Imagine what it would be like to have all those doubts and unsure thoughts disappear. What if I were to tell you that it is possible? Does that thought scare you?
I am reminded of the poem from’ A return to Love’ by Marianne Williamson, particularly the beginning,
Our deepest fear
is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear
is that we are strong beyond measure.
You are more than you think; stronger, wiser, smarter… Take a deep breath and begin to ponder the thought of your life with out fear. Now, pick up the phone and tell me what you discovered. I will help you release your fears and uncover your true self.
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